Reply #158: Hate to tell you: He's preparing for a divorce. [View All]

[TexasSissy]

That's what it sounds like to me. He's trying to get the finances, debts in order. He's broken away from you emotionally (vis a vis your dog crisis and Christmas). He no longer cares about compromising.

Mark my words. This guy has a plan, and it doesn't include you. Be prepared, like every good Girl Scout. Make sure the house and your vehicles are in BOTH of your names (if not...get them changed). Do you make more $$ than him? If so, it's time for separate checking accounts. If not, no separate accounts....but be on the lookout, since he no doubt WILL be getting a separate account, possibly w/o telling you.

There's a storm a brewin'. It's best to be prepared. Forewarned is forearmed, they say.