Reply #10: Let me speak from the other side of the fence. [View All]

[jojo54]

I am the wife of a man who found an attraction to a woman at work. He has since left that job, but the damage has already been done. We've BEEN having problems with our marriage, for many years now, but he "needs" me to feed his ego. She was also in a troubled marriage and wanted out. So, the mutual attraction started, they ended up in bed and got an apartment together. But when my hub realized that her older kids would be staying with them, he booked like he saw a ghost. Unfortunately, I let him back into my life again.

I am leaving in a month, because I just can't forgive or forget. After 32 years of marriage, 2 kids that he really didn't want, having to stuggle to get necessities for myself and our daughters because he spent any excess money on himself....THIS is how he repays me???

Sorry if I sound offensive, but I'm truely bitter over this affair, even though he doesn't call it that!?!?