Reply #262: i have never said ugly and cruel things to anyone, in heat of anger [View All]

[seabeyond]

or anything else for that matter, with the intent to hurt another. that one really is foriegn to me. i dont do that. i didnt when i was young.... was never a part of my make up.... so help me undertand here

when you say something cruel in the heat of anger to hurt someone,... dont you pull out something that you know will be hurtful, something you have felt like saying to the person but in the past just held it in cause you werent out of control. something you feel. a truth for you. or in this heat of anger do you pick something totally out of your character that has nothing to do with you as a person or the other person.... i am confused at this.

isnt it a truth that you hurl at someone.

and isnt that what this man did. and why doesnt that make him a bigot.