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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:16 PM
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"Grow A Skin!"
A number of days ago, a DUer posted an article about the over-prescription of psychotropic drugs (Can anyone please find a link to that post? A search has led to zero.)

This article from Psychology Today gives another facet of the problem.... incorrect labeling of personalities.

Sensitivity is present in ALL humans, and in this society, accounts for approximately 15-20% of the population. It is something that people are BORN with, so mocking people for being "too sensitive" is about the same as mocking people for having brown eyes. It is time to recognize this facet of our culture.

The complete article is well-worth the read, but is not on the website.... it is in the August issue of the magazine.

I hope it leads to more awareness.


"Sense and Sensitivity"

They tear up at phone commercials. They brood for days over a gentle ribbing. They know what you're feeling before you do. Their nerve cells are actually hyperreactive. Say hello to the Highly Sensitive Person—you've probably already made him cry.
By Andrea Bartz, published on July 05, 2011 - last reviewed on July 04, 2011

Settling into a chair for coffee with a friend, Jodi Fedor feels her heart begin to pound. Tension creeps through her rib cage. Anger vibrates in her solar plexus. But she's not upset about anything. The person across from her is. Fedor soaks up others' moods like a sponge.

Fedor is sensitive—an adjective usually preceded by too. "I'm like an exposed nerve," she says. "At its worst, my sensitivity turns me into an emotional weather vane at the whim of my environment." But at its best, it's a gift, a fine-tuned finger on the pulse of every flutter of her surroundings.

SNIP

The Highly Sensitive Person has always been part of the human landscape. There's evidence that many creative types are highly sensitive, perceiving cultural currents long before they are manifest to the mainstream, able to take in the richness of small things others often miss. Others may be especially sensitive to animals and how they are handled. They're also the ones whose feelings are so easily bruised that they're constantly being told to "toughen up."

Today, science is validating a group of people whose sensitivity surfaces in many domains of life. Attuned to subtleties of all kinds, they have a complex inner life and need time to process the constant flow of sensory data that is their inheritance. Some may be particularly prone to the handful of hard-to-pin-down disorders like chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia. Technology is now providing an especially revealing window into that which likely defines them all—a nervous system set to register stimuli at very low frequency and amplify them internally.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/201107/sense-and-sensitivity

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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:20 PM
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1. Good to see you here!
And this is a very interesting article. Thanks for sharing it.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:21 PM
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2. I hope many here take it to heart.
Please look at the magazine...

Also, the book, The Highly Sensitive Person.

Thanks.
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Hawkowl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:23 PM
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3. Excellent
May I suggest cross posting in the Science forum?
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:52 PM
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12. I have no more computer time. Please cross-post it.
Thanks.
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:26 PM
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4. Great timing!
Thanks for your post. It spoke to me.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:53 PM
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13. Thank you for letting me know that. I hope you will get the article...better yet, the book.
And, please share with others.

We need to raise our awareness.

Thank you. :pals:
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:30 PM
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5. Yet another reason to not call out Republicans/ They're probably born that way.
Poor things can't help it. We'd best give them their way so we don't risk hurting their feelings.

Good God Almighty People!



At what point do we decide that never criticizing anybody for anything, and never holding anyone accountable for their behavior is just beyond ridiculous? It doesn't make one damn bit of difference what anyone does, even to slaughtering a hundred innocent children in Norway, because we wonderful liberals will find a way to assure them, any everybody else, that it wasn't their fault, and that the poor mistreated terrorists are really the victims of our harsh, unkind words.

I guess Obama is right after all not to call the Republicans obstructionists and liars. That would just hurt their feelings. Why, I tear up just thinking about it.
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:38 PM
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6. I don't see how the OP...
..is suggesting not criticizing republicans. I think the OP is about over-diagnosis of conditions that "require" medication, and there may be some undertones about us trying to be nicer to each other. I think that's a long way from not criticizing anybody for anything.
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:48 PM
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9. OK. My bad. Sorry.
I didn't read the linked article, and I took the OP to mean that sensitive people should not be criticized because they can't help being sensitive. If that's not the intent, then I misinterpreted it.

Didn't mean to hurt anybody's feeling. ;)
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:51 PM
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10. LOL
Edited on Sat Jul-23-11 05:51 PM by rbnyc
I am very sensitive, you know.

:evilgrin:

I really don't think the OP meant that we can't be critical of anything that might stem from an innate quality.

:toast:

Edit: typo
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:55 PM
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14. Yes, that is exactly what I said. Criticizing people for having brown eyes is....
well, kinda like racism, don't you think?

But, decidding that Republicans are "sensitive".... now THAT is quite the stretch. :crazy:
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:56 PM
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15. That is exactly it. Criticizing people for being sensitive is VERY INSENSITIVE.
You could benefit from reading the book.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:52 PM
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11. Too bad you couldn't read it clearly.
Please try again.
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:39 PM
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7. link
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:57 PM
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16. Thank you so much!
I'm out of time now to print it, but at least I have it bookmarked!

Much appreciated! :pals:
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dipsydoodle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-23-11 05:40 PM
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8. Four might be better
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