murielm99
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Thu May-12-11 11:35 PM
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Did anyone else have a hard time today with obsessing |
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about the past?
I woke up feeling badly about things I have no control over, and reliving past mistakes. I tend to beat myself up anyway, but this was terrible.
Does anyone have any suggestions about how to control this?
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Fri May-13-11 12:15 AM
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Mnemosyne
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Fri May-13-11 12:29 AM
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3. "This is the month in which you find out what you are made of." |
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Excellent link, DeSwiss! :)
Right on time it seems. :hug:
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Fri May-13-11 04:49 PM
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Fri May-13-11 01:43 AM
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Fri May-13-11 05:09 PM
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16. You are most welcome. |
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- I'm glad it helped. Here's another http://lightworkers.org/channeling/131069/hilarions-weekly-message-may-8-15-2011">link that may provide you greater insight as to what it is that all of us are going through at this time..... {I might add that the next few days will very likely be even more energetic. For those who have chosen the path to 5d, get some rest, laugh, smile and sleep.}
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Fri May-13-11 12:17 PM
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Wow. Last week, after literally 20 years of being overweight and resisting doing anything about it, I started eating right and exercising. Boom, just like that! I really had no explanation for the sea change that took place in my psyche to start that!
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Fri May-13-11 05:12 PM
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17. We are changing from the inside-out. This is good. |
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Edited on Fri May-13-11 05:16 PM by DeSwiss
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Fri May-13-11 12:19 AM
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2. I couldn't stop the thoughts most of the day. Tried to stay really busy, it finally helped. |
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Serious obsessing going on, I hear ya'!
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Fri May-13-11 01:05 AM
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4. not the past, but mistakes, yes |
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felt like i was watching my own repetition of mistakes and bad habits even as i was doing the exact things i hate! wasted the day, used illness as an excuse to be a flake, etc...feels like a bad trip
:(
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Fri May-13-11 08:25 AM
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Couldn't turn off my brain as I was trying to get to sleep. I thought I was going crazy! :crazy:
When I get that way, I stop picking things apart and talk to my angels and guides--I ask them to intervene and neutralize any negative thoughts I might conjure up (and any corresponding negative manifestations that might come of it). And I politely ask them to grab the controls and put the brakes on my Crazy Train. ;)
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Fri May-13-11 11:33 AM
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Yesterday. My mind was going places I thought it would never visit again. I've done well to let the bad rap go. It was back, and I found it confusing.
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Fri May-13-11 11:40 AM
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8. Yes, but this is not unusual for me. And lately, my memories of the past |
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have helped me to see how completely disconnected from that past I have become. It is dead. It is gone. We are in a new century and can never go back to the way things were before.
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Fri May-13-11 12:12 PM
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For me it started Wednesday evening. Very bad night of sleep!
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Fri May-13-11 01:56 PM
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I haven't been able to sleep all week, which is unlike me. I've been lying awake till well after midnight even without having any caffeine and even with physical exercise (meaning I should be more tired).
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Fri May-13-11 12:56 PM
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11. Harder yesterday, due in part to some acting out by the Ex... |
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Somewhat better today, as I'm trying to emphasize being kind to myself, prioritizing what helps me (as opposed reflexively responding to "her stuff," etc...)
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Fri May-13-11 01:48 PM
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12. Pretty much describes me for the past 2/3 weeks |
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I try to focus on the good stuff in my life right now. Sometimes, though, it does seem like a losing battle....
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Fri May-13-11 02:24 PM
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14. Obsessive behavior, yes. |
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Seeing past it, standing up from it, as well.
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Fri May-13-11 10:20 PM
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18. weird dreams all night... |
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just letting it flow by as I'm watching the river...
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