well, so far so good

[mopinko]

hubby had his first visit with his therapist last tuesday. he likes her, and is relieved to dump all the crap he carries around with him. i have had 3 visits with my therapist, and i like her fine, too.
it is all very scary, hearing your husband say "i like her, i told her everything." is just unsettling, no matter what the goal.
thing between us have been quite sweet, with both of us very hopeful that we are on a path to finally be happy together. i'm trying to find the path of being open to hearing about what is going on in his sessions without invading his space. he told me a lot of the things they talked about. since it was just the first session there was not too much to say. but man, am i EVER HAPPY that i was not there for his avalanche of woes. and i am enjoying talking about the problems we are having without him there to argue and deny. i don't know how far we will get with separate paths, but it seems like the right thing for now. i am hoping that he will make enough progress for us to work together at some point. i hope she is a good therapist. there is a lot of denial to wade through.
thanks to everyone here for their support. this therapy shit is spooky.

[Droopy]

1. Good luck to you two

I hope you all are able to resolve some things via the therapy route.

[no name no slogan]

2. Glad to hear things went well

sometimes a third party is exactly what you need. I hope things continue to work for you and that you find happiness. I'm remembering you in my prayers.

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