Sexist creep du jour

[Ellen Forradalom]

Reading craigslist rants & raves is like lifting a rock and seeing all the rotting matter and squirming rocks underneath. It's utterly disgusting yet weirdly fascinating.

Take, for example, this waste of space on the planet:

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/den/446210922.html

'I was married and against my wishes the marriage ended. I loved my wife deeply, she decided she no longer loved me and she wasn't "happy".'

Of course, he had nothing to do with that, nor is he going to waste precious brain cells or moments pondering whether he did.

"I date for the occasional bit of company and to occasionally have sex, that's about it. "

Then hire a hooker and pay the market rate, you cheapskate.

"Feminists. I don't date women who are avowed feminists with a "you go girl" mentality. Sorry, but your little movement fucked things up in a major way."

And not a moment too soon. If I lost my full-time maid, bookkeeper, nurse and sex slave, I'd be pissed too.

Thank God he doesn't plan to remarry. He at least has spared the women of the world that much.

[BlueIris]

1. Ew. That IS creepy. And far, far too many women looking to be treated like shit

will volunteer to be a "bit of company" for that asshole.

[Ellen Forradalom]

3. You gotta give the guy points for honesty, at least

At least I can cross the street when I see a guy like that headed my way.

[mrreowwr_kittty]

2. He's a ripe target for those "How To Be A Successful Pickup Artist" scams

And I don't have the slightest bit of sympathy for him. One thing I've noticed about those ripoff scams and MRA sites is that they always advise young lads like our Craigslist friend to stay away from avowed feminists. Just further proof that feminism provides the most successful inoculation against jerks for women. I get a kick out of him saying he won't date us. What? Like that's supposed to scare me? "Better stop being so uppity and demanding or else you'll lose your chance to go out with a spoiled, entitled, immature loser!" :rofl:

[Ellen Forradalom]

4. Or mail-order bride agencies.

Women who can relate on an equal footing seem to frighten him. He'll find himself someone with no other option but to please him 24/7.

[lizerdbits]

5. What a loser

"1. I never seriously date a woman who terminated her last relationship because she wasn't "happy". Happiness is an emotional response to external stimuli. To break the vow of "til' death do us part" over an emotional state that may or may not be another person's fault, is shallow and shows a lack of emotional maturity. It tells me that woman is too self absorbed to be a reliable partner in the future."

IOW 'I didn't care if my wife was happy and I want a woman who will shut up and accept how I want to treat her. Any woman who doesn't want to make my comfort the primary focus of her life is self absorbed.'

Too bad he'd never date me, I think I'll go cry. :eyes:

"2. I don't date fat women. Sorry, all you "BBWs"; get a grip on reality. If you are walking around looking like you have a beer keg stuffed in your pants, you don't give a shit about yourself, so I really don't expect you to give a shit about me in the long run. Don't give me that crap about how happy you are with yourself, you're not and we both know it. If you and I had fallen in love twenty years ago, gotten married and had a family and you had put on the weight, I would still be with you, but we didn't and so I see no need to accommodate your lack of character and discipline. "

If you're not a certain size you just can't be happy. The amount of character you posses is inversely proportional to your size.

"Hell, most women can't or won't cook a decent meal anymore and are as a general rule clueless in regard to the domestic arts."

No surprise, he just wants a servant. Pretty typical for a man who uses the feminism is evil shit. I'm glad the great cashew chicken I just made will never reach his stupid mouth. It's too good for him.

[Ellen Forradalom]

6. Nor my homemade challah,

or roast chicken, or brisket, or vegan cornbread, or polenta with goat cheese and pinenuts, or pesto, or pumpkin sweet potato soup, or crispy homemade fries, etc. etc. Same goes for my handknit socks and sweaters and the output of my sewing machine and serger.

The fruits of my skills are bestowed only upon those who are glad to receive them. It's not surprising that he hasn't experienced what a highly intelligent, appreciated woman can do.

[Gormy Cuss]

7. Wow. Do you think he's still available?

I'm thinking of packing my bags and heading to Colorado RIGHT NOW. :eyes:

It is a terribly bitter post. I hope for his sake that he's not really that bitter about women in real life especially since he has children.

[Ellen Forradalom]

8. The world is filled with bitter people

Our greatest spiritual challenge is to remain hopeful and grateful in the face of life's disappointments.

[bliss_eternal]

9. The internet provides refuge for creeps like this...

...yet another sociopathic coward, spewing vile ideas on-line where they feel safe to do so. Anonymously in cyberspace. :eyes: In the real world, they would be labeled the dangerous, misogynistic narcissists they are.

Men with this sort of latent hostility toward women are a few steps away from their own profile on American Justice as a guy holding women against their will as slaves, a rapist or serial killer that indulges in all of the above.

His post reminds me of a disgusting site I encountered quite by chance, one night.
I was seeking information after reading an article about a woman magician, where she spoke of how male dominated the industry is. What I found (through a search engine query) made me sick. Seriously. (I created a link and post about it at the time, and thought better of it and deleted it).

I won't share it here as I won't provide extra advertising for his filthy site. (It's also against board rules to link to hate sites--and though some may not consider it such, I do).

If anyone's interested in it, post here--I'll pm you the link. Just don't say I didn't warn you. :scared: Sometimes I'm floored by the kind of shit that's allowed on-line/in cyberspace.

[Ellen Forradalom]

10. It's disturbing to find yourself face-to-face

with such hate.

[bliss_eternal]

14. Particularly when they find such clever ways to be hateful...

...:eyes: such as naming their sites things like "men are better than women dot com". I wish I was kidding.

What kind of turd puts their time and money into creating something like that?

[Katherine Brengle]

11. oh. my. fucking. gawd.

"I don't hate women at all by the way, I just know what is worth my time and what isn't."

Uh, yes, yes you do hate women.

"I don't need a woman in my life full time. I can cook and clean, etc, etc."

Yup, because that's what we vagina-toters do, cook and clean and fuck.

"Your pussy is not the only one in the universe and it isn't plated with gold. If you won't have sex with a man, one of your slutty sisters around the corner will."

I just puked a little in my mouth.

[mrreowwr_kittty]

12. Oh wow, a Madonna/Whore complex too! Now, that's what I call a total package!

Of what, I don't know. But he's a total package of it. :puke:

[bliss_eternal]

13. Has anyone alerted on that thing, yet...?

...Craigs list is pretty good about yanking offensive material. I couldn't get past the guy's intro (it was beyond nauseating for me) and missed this oh so special bit about gold plated genitalia. :eyes:

I assure you if I saw that, I would have alerted on it in a heartbeat.
Isn't he a prize? :puke:

[Ellen Forradalom]

15. Quite the contrary, it made Best Of

For some definition of 'best.'

[bliss_eternal]

17. Gawd that's sickening.

:eyes:

[MonteLukast]

25. Especially...

... since he's from Colorado. Ewww! Get this garbage out of my beautiful state!

[Ellen Forradalom]

16. Not hard to see why his wife dumped him, eh? n/t

[bliss_eternal]

18. Exactly what I said to myself while reading it.

I suddenly understand exactly why she wasn't "happy."

Dude needs a blow-up doll or a prostitute, but apparently he's too cheap to come off his "good living" for either. That or he needs the satisfaction of of constantly putting someone in "their place." I've never read such a pile of contradictory bullshit--unless of course you count some of the posts in GD (claiming to not hate women). :eyes:

[wicket]

19. Wow.

2. I don't date fat women. Sorry, all you "BBWs"; get a grip on reality. If you are walking around looking like you have a beer keg stuffed in your pants, you don't give a shit about yourself, so I really don't expect you to give a shit about me in the long run. Don't give me that crap about how happy you are with yourself, you're not and we both know it. If you and I had fallen in love twenty years ago, gotten married and had a family and you had put on the weight, I would still be with you, but we didn't and so I see no need to accommodate your lack of character and discipline.

:puke: :puke:

[Ellen Forradalom]

20. He's Peter from The Family Guy

[wicket]

21. Nice one!

:rofl:

Too true though. It's like all those sitcoms (According to Jim, King of Queens, etc.) that star a big fat guy & his trophy wife. You'd never see the roles reversed in having a fat woman and a trophy husband. *sigh*

[Ellen Forradalom]

22. The guys who are most adamant on that point

need to have a look in the mirror themselves.

[raccoon]

23. I read a few paragraphs and don't want to read any more of his crap.

Like you, I thought the remark about he didn't date women who are avowed feminist a big red flag.

As this is:

"I never date a woman who feels the need to tout her own independence. "

Yep, sounds like he wants a sex slave. OTOH, he mentioned getting a dog. Maybe a dog and an inflatable sex doll would fix him up.

[Ellen Forradalom]

26. Another satisfied customer of Real Doll

in the making.

He is the architect of his own loneliness, the poor bastard.

[MonteLukast]

24. What I found especially revolting:

{Y}ou don't give a shit about yourself, so I really don't expect you to give a shit about me in the long run. Don't give me that crap about how happy you are with yourself, you're not and we both know it.

:puke:

Presuming to know how the woman feels. Patronizingly assuming she "feels bad about herself".

I've seen a LOT of that one myself. Your opinions discounted because you're "too insecure". Empathy and "tough love" twisted around to become instruments of invalidation.

It's some of the most toxic, manipulative sludge in existence. And it's all done so as to very very carefully preserve the sexist creep's reputation as "caring" and "concerned".

:puke:

And of course, there's the obligatory "fanaticism" about selfishness:

To break the vow... It tells me that woman is too self absorbed to be a reliable partner in the future.

Your pussy is not the only one in the universe and it isn't plated with gold. If you won't have sex with a man, one of your slutty sisters around the corner will.


I never date a woman who feels the need to tout her own independence.





Hmmm. I think of a certain brave, crusading man. A man on a great mission against selfishness. This man has been reported to:

A. Diminish his wife's literary accomplishments as being secondary to her Stepford Wife skills-- books on topics he heartily endorsed, nonetheless;
B. Tell women outright they shouldn't bother getting an education;
C. Claim tax breaks for a state he didn't even live in;
D. Take a dead fetus home-- his miscarried son-- and make his wife and children carry it around.

Funny about the ones who go on and on about selfishness. They probably would know it when they see it; after all, they LIVE with it.

[Ellen Forradalom]

27. What makes such a fantastic catch

I wonder?

His dick's not solid gold, either. And god knows his brothers are easier than any of my sisters.

[spooky3]

28. yeah, but is he cute?

If he is, we'll overlook all those other minor complaints.

:sarcasm:

Let me guess--he's not rich either.

Can you imagine how his post would have looked/sounded if it were a woman writing about a man?

In addition to everything others have posted above: I would hazard a guess that he's another one of those very average guys who are bitter that the most desirable women aren't interested in him. It's always THEIR fault.