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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 07:45 AM
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Why is it so important to some men?

Swallowing, I refer to. Someone's post in another forum made me think of this.


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MountainLaurel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 09:28 AM
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1. Perhaps they see it as a rejection of their manhood
After all, some men see sperm as an extension of their manliness (remember the general in Dr. Strangelove and all his concern about his "fluids"?).
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 02:12 PM
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2. I don't know, but it's not up to them. n/t
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Scout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 02:42 PM
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3. tell him if he thinks it's so great to swallow,
he can come in a cup and you'll hand it to him....

if you don't want to do it, don't let him force you or coerce you, or whine/beg/plead.
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 07:16 PM
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5. Nice response.
:thumbsup:

Similar to the one I was taught regarding anal.
Dude want's anal to have anal sex? No problem. Bend over and I'll shove a broomstick up your ass and see how you like it. ;)
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 07:32 PM
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6. Mine's into that sort of thing.
But we're kinky kids. :P
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 08:27 PM
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8. That's what's important...
...that you dig it, too. :hi: ;)
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-08-08 05:17 AM
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12.  Or in other words...
...my intent was not to knock something others enjoy. A female relative shared that smart retort w/me long before I'd ever even figured out if I liked it or not. :blush:
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 07:14 PM
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4. Whhaaaaaat....?
:spray:

Sorry...didn't expect this--took me a bit off guard. omg.
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 07:33 PM
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7. Worst use of a smilie ever
:evilgrin:

(Yes, I'm a perv, I can't help myself...)
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 08:28 PM
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9. How's this one...?
:spank:
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 09:07 PM
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11. lol!
I deserved it :D
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-07-08 08:58 PM
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10. When they do it?
Oh guess not.

So they can discuss whether one is a swallower or a spitter?

Following that don't spill the seed rule in the bible?

To keep track of it all? (As far as possible)

Birth control?

What's interesting to me, is in the visual medium that shows such things, it almost never shows swallowing. Got to have it all over the place, evidently

Could be a hygienic preference in that light. Doubt that's it.


Another interesting question, will they kiss you after?
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-16-08 09:49 PM
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16. Are you talking a 'snow ball?' nt
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-17-08 10:00 AM
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21. I thought ismnotwasm was reminding us
that men swallow as well...in het relationships as well as GLBT ones. Or in...er...solo scenarios. Sometimes.
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-08-08 05:19 AM
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13. No pun intended...
..but this goes down as one of the funniest threads I've ever encountered here. Not sure why it's cracking me up, but it is. :rofl:
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Zuiderelle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-08 04:27 PM
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14. I haven't looked in this group in a while and this is what I find. It's affecting my gag reflex.
And... :rofl:

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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-16-08 11:07 AM
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15. LOL
Gag reflex, it's a good thing--Martha Stewart
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-16-08 09:50 PM
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17. Did you know that Monica
Lewinsky was sent in as a 'swallow?' They knew his weakness....
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-16-08 11:15 PM
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18. But that stain
Edited on Thu Oct-16-08 11:16 PM by ismnotwasm
surly was an accident, no? (I want to say slip of the tongue but I ain't going there)

Is that really true? I know a bit about the sex lives of powerful male politicians, not much, but a bit. Strange brew for sure...
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-17-08 09:57 AM
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20. I suppose we will never know for sure....
however, I was told that within the world of 'spooks' (cia), that a 'swallow' is a plant to get the target to do what he isn't supposed to do. And why was the dress kept in the back of her closet? And it was this dress that resulted in Impeachment.

She may have been planted by AIPAC or PNAC....who knows? She, too, had the tendency to go for older men. So she would have been a natural.

Maybe she was just used...who knows? I felt sorry for her...but if she did KNOW what she was doing, I no longer feel sorry for her.

This World of Power Politics where these people live is so very different from our everyday lives that it is difficult to comprehend. But the pure evil of these neocons and war hawks has opened my eyes to the depths of their vile behavior. It all goes to their thinking that women are just there to be used as a means to an end.

I find some comfort and peace in knowing that Karma will be there to secure Justice.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-17-08 09:56 AM
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19. Once, in an ancient copy of "The Joy of Sex," I read that some
Edited on Fri Oct-17-08 09:57 AM by BlueIris
men "reported" (to the Joy of Sex authors, anyway) the non-swallow option as rejection.

Yeah, it's just something I read.
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