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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 12:26 PM Original message |
The Male Gaze |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. You reminded me of something... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:04 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. i am tellin ya, if women across the world "gazed" at the male crotch in same manner |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:36 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. I think that staring at breasts is fundamentally different than staring at crotches. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:03 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. fundamentally different maybe, but equal in the power of and discomfort created. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 10:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. great point... |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:50 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. That's the way I feel... we sort of expect men to gawk at breasts, but not our crotches |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:04 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Once we get used to it we take it for granted... |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:47 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Absolutely. It did feel very creepy, then I got used to it. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:22 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. "After all, it was reinforced in all our media ..." |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 04:41 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. felt the same way... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:25 AM Response to Reply #3 |
13. Well the theory is more about the way women are presented in media. |
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chillspike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-08-10 07:05 AM Response to Reply #3 |
35. The thing is these type of men are rewarded by some women |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-08-10 08:34 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. there is a whole bad boy, nice guy discussion we can get into. and no, i dont see it |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-08-10 07:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. no. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
19. True |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 01:10 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. bit o/t... |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 02:38 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. The what were they called? |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 06:01 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. ah yes.... |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Recently noticed it again after being invisible to men... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:08 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. firstly, i was single lots of years, all over the west. reno i worked nights and played the rest of |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:18 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. it's great that you feel that way... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:33 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. certainly not a dismissal, more |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 11:41 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. the reality is.... |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:24 PM Response to Reply #11 |
20. It is creepy |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:57 PM Response to Reply #7 |
17. I dunno |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-18-10 11:51 PM Response to Reply #1 |
24. I've been reading and re-reading this thread |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-19-10 12:19 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Interesting thoughts |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-19-10 01:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. I love your posts, Thom. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-19-10 02:19 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I met a man |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-19-10 10:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Well, if looking at men.... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:00 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Exactly. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 03:34 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. When I've attempted.... |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-07-10 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
31. I have serious problems with it. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-08-10 01:10 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. great description... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-08-10 01:30 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Asshole repellent is an awesome expression, and you may consider it stolen. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-08-10 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
34. male dominence. i think that is the difference. i have been thinking about this |
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tishaLA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-12-10 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
38. can I ask for a definition of the term? |
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