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I'm curious, what about on the other side? Men that put their wives through college? Did the women dump them, or trade up when their education was finished? I know of a couple that did this, he put her through--they are still together. It's interesting to me that the odds are so overwhelming on the other side. What does this tell us about the way women are regarded in society? What does this tell us about women in general?
Oh, and I TOTALLY AGREE about the other woman. For them to not even consider the other side...retarded.
The other case, is equally interesting and sad.
Clara was an immigrant. She worked hard, went to school, became a dentist. Don't recall when she met her piece of shit husband, but anyway they met, fell in love, blah, blah. Got married, had twin boys. He had a daughter from a prior relationship (this never seems to say anything to women either does it...like why did THEY split up). Anyway...
They merged their dental practices to one larger practice--they made lots of money, very successful. He starts to get distant. Women in their practice (assts., secretaries) tell her he's having an affair with the new office mgr. he had hired at one of their other practices. This woman had a reputation as a man eater, she was kind of known as a home wrecker of sorts.
Eventually she confronts him. He admits the indiscretion. Clara being the hardworking immigrant, thinks this is just another challenge to be overcome. She goes out to dinner with her husband and asks him what it is about the 'other woman.' He talks about how amazing she is in bed, her body, how in shape she is, blah, blah, ad nauseum.
Somehow Clara and he agreed that he was going to give her up. Clara quits the dental practice so she can focus on HIM fulltime. :eyes: Sorry--couldn't resist. Anyway, she starts working out with a trainer. I think she got plastic surgery. She focused all her time and attention on him and making herself better for HIM.
He tells her he's going to meet with the mistress--one last time, to tell her it's over. (yeah, right). Clara hired a pi to follow him. The pi reported after dinner they had entered a hotel--the same one they spent their wedding night. Clara flew their in a rage. Her step-daughter, called him on his cell to trick him to come out. Once he's down there, they both (the daughter and Clara) go off on him.
In the midst of this, he decides he's going to walk the mistress to her car (instead of leaving with his wife and daughter). While in the parking lot, Clara got in her car (w/the daughter) and in a rage, drove toward the mistresses car. In the process, she hit and ran over the husband. The daughter witnessed his death.
I've heard this woman talk of this a few times, and I totally believe her. I think she was OUT OF HER MIND with rage, grief, jealousy, betrayal, etc., etc. I really don't think she knew what she was doing. Evidence that was witheld during the trial shows that is quite possible--but it was Texas and they had it in for her.
It's horrible that the man died the way he did, and his poor daughter witnessed it. Really it is. But I don't think that woman got a morsel of consideration of what she was put through either. She was also cast aside like she was trash, and lied to by the asshat, may he rest in peace.
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