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I got angry right in the middle of a conversation with a couple of women friends, when we were discussing alternative methods of abortions. One of the women-- who is older than us-- used a known "herbal" (It wasn't really a herb) abortificant that worked well for her back in the day. I told them about the websites popping on do-it-yourself abortions. We talked about South Dakota and all that.
I couldn't believe we were even discussing this shit. My mind reeled, I had a What The fuck moment. I lost my train of thought. I was instantly furious.
On a different topic, I learned something the other day that also pissed me off. I don't know why I didn't know about this, but I didn't. Young type 1 diabetic women can get a special type of eating disorder. They let their blood sugars get out of control to lose weight. They risk losing thier eyesight, kidneys, body parts, brain function and lives to fit in a pair of fucking pants.
And "they" meaning "The patriarchy" since "they" is too vague of a term and doesn't identify anything-- try to tell us we over-react, that we're anti-male, that we're antifemale, that we're anti-first amendment.
You know what? "They" can kiss my ass. After they go volunteer at a crisis clinic, after "they" sit in a few court sessions and see how rape victims are treated,After "they" hold the hand of a dying 20 year old who wanted to be thin. After they watch a 12 year old boy, abused since birth, born addicted,the 7th of 9 children overdose on heroin. In fact "they" can volunteer in hospitals holding addicted babies as I have, listening to them scream and scream and scream, until they get their dose of morphine. "They" can talk to older women unable to have children because thier husbands brought them home VD at a time when if was shameful to be treated. "They" can talk to a young prostitute who will never have children because of repeated PID. "They" will say it was her choice, the choice that "they" want to give us, the choice to protitute ourselves, exploit ourselves, the "choice" to fit into the mold of feminity that is so limiting it defies description. They even give us the "choice" where I work of having security escort us to our cars at night so we can be "safe". Nice option, wish it wasn't so nessisary.
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