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From an analysis of George Eliot's Mrs. Transome; "Made a saboteur by her sexual history, she can impede the political ambitions of her former lover and her son. That she should possess only one negative form of power reveals Eliot's criticism of the restricted possibilities permitted women when they are regarded primarily as body, rather than as body and mind. If men tend to read women primarily as sexual and emotional creatures, then that is how women's power will be expressed - through their sexuality and through their emotions. And in the case of Mrs. Transome, this culturally inscribed power is turned against those two men who circumscribe her behavior. Her female world of destructive sexuality and nagging disappointment demolishes a male world of political action - and implicitly interrogates the usefulness of politics itself" Deirdre David
In the case of Victorian Romanticism, Woman was "the keeper of morals", when patriarchy was confronted head on with women who could think, who could reason, far beyond the average "man of letters" who were published and even made a living. Women should be educated, some said(and we,of course are talking about middle to upper class white women) not to escape the home, hearth and childbirth, but in order to be able to uplift their husbands, in support and conversation. Other views flat out said that an educated woman put her reproductive organs at great risk, as well as made them unattractive.
Through it all runs the whole archetype of the sacred mother, the nurturing one, the emotional one (and being emotional, less stable, less fit for other work) Not motherhood as it is, but like the book says some sort of idealized version of it, that never really existed, only to serve to make women feel insecure about the one thing they COULD do,were allowed to do, were expected to do.
And God help those who are/were "barren" There is still great agony of soul in women unable to conceive, rooted not only in the desire to have children of course, but the feeling of being incomplete, less than a "woman"
And I, who have casually said in the past that I wouldn't have had children again given the choice to do it over, because I'm not mother material, I had them far too young etc. (even though my children are adult and a joy to me) I no longer say this, in respect of the agony women still suffer who can't conceive.
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