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Have you ever had someone play mind games with you are have you ever played them on someone else?

When I was younger and insecure I used to be incredibly manipulative in my personal relationships. Luckily I got smart. Now I only use my powers for good. :evilgrin:

As for having someone play mind games with me, my exboyfriend was the king. He would subtly undermine my confidence so I wouldn't leave him, threaten me by saying things like, "my exgirlfriend used to complain about that," etc. I never really noticed how bad it was until AFTER we broke up. After I got some distance from the whole thing I was pretty embarrassed that I put up with it for so long. That's what's tough about manipulators like that - you kind of feel not right, but you can't really articulate it, and usually the manipulator will just accuse you of being too sensitive or naggy.

I've never dated a married person, and I've never really fucked someone over or been fucked over by someone...not that I can think of, anyway.