Reply #47: Sounds to me [View All]

[FloridaJudy]

Like during the break-up she was considering a fling with you, but now feels sheepish about it and is trying to tell you not to get your hopes up. Yeah, she's confused, and that relationship doesn't sound promising, but she was probably feeling thoroughly miserable and seeking reassurance that she's still attractive. Back off - a relationship between two people fresh from a rebound has potential for real disaster.

And that's what I'd probably tell her in our secret female meetings. And there's little smoke involved, though the smell of nail polish and hair spray could induce a sneezing fit.