Reply #27: Well composed post. [View All]

[Realityhack]

Evoman has a rather fair approach.

I might add that if the question 'would you like to come to church?' is starting to feel like a preasure tactic you might just sit down with your wife and explain that you know that she loves you and would be glad to have you come to church with her, that you know there is an open invitation to attend but you would prefer that she respect your decision not to, and that you will let her know if you change your mind. You might point out that you are more than willing to not ask her to stay home or study Dawkins etc. and you are asking for that to go both ways.

Of course if its just a polite question... just politely decline.