Reply #14: I am so sorry to hear what you are going thru.. [View All]

[cassiepriam]

The important thing for you right now is to be safe. Now is not the time to make major life decisions. Now is the time to deal with the immediate practicalities of your emergency.

If you think your husband may came back to hurt you, then please call the police and/or go stay with someone else. Please call your counselor, or you can call a crisis center or hot line. Perhaps a friend or relative can come stay with you. And please go see an attorney asap, not to fight, but to get some protection and find out what your rights are.

Listen to what the wise people on this board are telling you. Take care of you for right now, and make sure you are safe. You can sort it all out later. Then you can begin to deal with your pain, your loss. And begin to face what is scaring you, and to get in touch with your courage.