Reply #169: I think that many men do believe what they are beieng told. It's dumb [View All]

[Catrina]

yes, but who said it was smart to pay for sex in the first place? The money, a lawyer could argue, means he lost even more than if he were merely lied to. He was both financially, emotionally and physically raped. Of course he'd be laughed out of court if he were to make a claim of rape under those circumstances, and so would a wife who charges that because her husband was cheating on her behind her back, when they had sex and he lied about loving her, that she was raped. Or a man or woman who claims that because their sex partner lied and said 'I love you' they were raped. This is just a ridiculous charge and really diminishes the real crime of rape.