Reply #121: interesting. i love your sharing. i think mens role is.... [View All]

[seabeyond]

(i have always had very good, loving and protective males in my life)

talking ot my husband about this issue, and his helpless, what can man do? i tell him we women need you men, men like you. and when some male is boasting and braggin how he raped that girl, (he may not use the word rape, but a male knows) or some other behavior that you know within bothers you, you speak out.

and teach your sons, and set example with you mate.

that is your role. and it would and does help tremendously.

my man, my father, do a wonderful job setting example of what male is. because my father was soooo good, probably why my expectation so high, and i was able to find a man like mine

i also believe women have a part in this too. and i believe as a woman it is my job not to allow the woman to be victim, powerless, nor other things women do, that is role of my gender to press them on

i dont feel it is a battle between gender. if it is,no one will ever win. it has got to be a win win for all, or will never work. we will all be losers.

i liked your post